A high wire juggle on two mountains

How To Dramatically Balance Your Attitude For The Better

Your story unfolds…

You mused, “This is the best day of my life! I took a position of my dream job working for this prestigious firm.”

“I mean, wow… I landed an awesome job with the salary most definitely beyond the call of duty. Heck, the benefits were, well… out of this world! I mean three weeks of vacation, a free deluxe gym at our firm, discount to my favorite stores… gee. ”

The process of hiring me was outstanding. I met with not one, not two, but three partners of an admired company. More than that, believe it or not, they were blown away by my accomplishments and chutzpah.”

They were glowing with all of the accolades that I achieved. They also respected and trusted my clients I directed but my ‘competition’, too. All of them agreed that my positive attitude and decisive disposition will do just what the doctor ordered in my new endeavors.”

Little Perks

“And it gets even better.”

“They wined me. They dined me. They had little perks that, in my opinion, no one else in the company even came close to offering.”

“The partners even said that I could have a corner office with all of the latest gadgets and gizmos. They arranged a senior assistant that, in all of their opinions, was not only very reliable but possess some backbone so that I was grounded if things got too high or too low.”

“This is going to be spectacular.”

Like a Rudder

Time passes, and several weeks come and go…

Even though it is still shiny and you asked 1,000,001 inquiries, you apprehend very quickly that you are now obligated to produce. You required new patrons. Even the three partners are still very impressed, but they are worried and agitated that you were not learning all of the objectives more rapidly.

Your assistant sometimes appears frazzled in what you were trying to deliver, but when you ask this person to elaborate, she clams up and says, “You’re right, my mistake,” very sheepishly.

Almost like a rudder for your new company, you are flinching of the pressure and stress and, my God, it’s only been just a few weeks.

What happen?

Stay the Course

The answer, my friends, is to stay the course. Like a bell curve with incredible, magnificent highs and irrefutable, rejecting low there is a middle ground that is what you were aiming for.

All of the know-how that you have negotiated so far will shine over time. Likewise, you slowly remind yourself of the attitude of your new surroundings with both resolve and cunning.

Similar to a crockpot; it has to simmer for days before the true nature of all of your talents will come through.

In other words, relax – you will thrive magnificently, you wait-and-see!

Herb Silverman

Sooner or later, most ideas and suggestions will change; it's just human nature. My mission is to touch one person at a time with a positive impact, transforming words into tangible actions. To that end, I am a leader, networker, advocate, and blogger. I explore change and viewpoints, squarely focused on areas of leadership, productivity, salesmanship, adaptability, and humor. That's not offering you a lot of detail, is it? So, learn more at the tab "About Herb"...